Let’s say you’ve
done all the right things in your career: you went
to law school, got a job with a good firm, and you’re
now collecting a nice paycheck and benefits. But
as the age of 30 fast approaches, you may be feeling
like you’re wearing the wrong skin. Being
an attorney doesn’t see to “fit”
who you are inside, even as everyone around you
is proud of your accomplishments. You can’t
even discuss your unhappiness with friends; they
say, “Be grateful you have a great job. The
economy is terrible, and you won’t find anything
better than what you have.”
Or maybe you’ve been successful at your career
for many years and the age of 50 is fast approaching.
You’ve honed your skills as an attorney, built
a strong reputation, and are quite good at what
you do. You’re rather attached to your prestigious
title as partner of a large firm. Yet inside you’re
tormented. The politics in your office are driving
you mad, and you’re having health problems.
Congratulations! You’re right on schedule.
If you’re questioning everything about your
life from career to relationships, this is “on
purpose.” You pre-programmed these two major
career reinventions into your lifetime, and you’ve
just bumped into one. Now you’re supposed
to wake up and remember who you are and what you
came to do.
Two things are happening at these two times, from
the age of about 27 to 30, and then again from about
54 to 58. First, you’re in what astrologers
call a Saturn Returning, a time when everything
in your life changes. Second, you’re in what
numerology calls a nine-year cycle (which occurs
every nine years, at ages 9, 18, 27 and so forth);
when we hit such a cycle, we have to let go of the
old—from careers to relationships—if
they aren’t serving our higher purpose.
Now, when these two events occur simultaneously—as
they do during these two times--your life flips
upside down. Everything changes. But the unease
you experience is inevitable; you signed up for
this challenge!
Quit complaining about how confused you feel, and
be grateful that your wise old higher self knew
you would need these two major wake up calls and
pre-programmed them into your lifetime. The pain
you feel is on purpose; it’s your fuel for
moving forward. If you don’t use that pain
to fuel your reinvention, you’ll self-destruct.
The end result of this inner turmoil will be a
happier career that’s more aligned with your
authentic self and what you came here to accomplish.
No one else did this to you; even if you’ve
been fired, laid off, or broken up with. It’s
what your higher self intended. It’s not the
end of your world; it’s just the beginning.
Now is the time to ask yourself the big questions:
“Why am I here? What did I come here to accomplish?
What gifts and talents did I bring with me to accomplish
my mission?” These questions will guide you
to the first step of your career change--whether
that means investigating where you could teach law,
researching a different type of law practice, getting
re-educated, or starting your own firm.
Your new direction can build on the things you’ve
already accomplished. Even if you switch careers
entirely, you’ll take your past experiences
and knowledge, and re-package them for your next
career.
You came here with a mission: to raise the vibration
of the planet in your unique way, using your innate
gifts and talents. This is also known as “work.”
You pre-programmed it into your date of birth, name
at birth, and many other places inside of you to
create your own GPS guidance system-- the quiet
voice that calmly reminds you of your mission.
And that mission requires frequent reinventions.
Stepping up to the next level of your work is required
several times during a lifetime--especially every
nine years. But the biggest changes are required
at ages 27 to 30 and again at 54 to 58. This is
when your higher self turns up the volume and yells:
“Mission not yet accomplished!”
The turning point in your 50's can be the most
challenging. You’ve had an awesome career
so far, you’ve raised kids and created a strong
social network. It’s not like you’re
a nobody. Even so, your life may be in turmoil.
Deep inside, you might realize you haven’t
done your great work yet, the work that will make
a difference in the world and leave a larger legacy.
In your 50s, it’s time to peel off the layers
of pretense and false identity you may have developed
to succeed in the world of career. Own your naked,
authentic self in the world, and do the sacred work
you’ve already signed up for--even if that
means owning up to something you’ve never
owned up to before. Your higher self is telling
you that you only have a few productive decades
left, and it’s now or never. When health issues
happen in our 50s, it’s just the soul nudging
us to remember who we are.
It’s your choice. Your life is ruled by free
will. You either choose to rise above your challenges
and live up to the great potential you came here
to accomplish, or sink beneath your pain and fear
and not live up to it this time around. Either way,
it’s your mission. There’s no one to
answer to about your success or failure but yourself.
And, as you can tell from the way you feel at these
transition points, your higher self is your harshest
judge. Be grateful for your pre-programmed mission
and move forward.
If you’re currently in the middle of either
of these career/life transitions, here are some
steps to help you move forward as powerfully as
possible.
1. Meditate or pray at least twice
a day to quiet your crazy thinking and tap into
your higher self, which is where you’ll find
the answers you can trust. Meditation is the best
way to tap into your inner GPS system.
2. Be grateful for this opportunity
to reinvent yourself, and be honest about how unhappy
and off-path you’ve been.
3. Raise your energy through little
things like laughing, walking and reading inspirational
books; it will help move you forward in a positive
direction.
4. Visualize your amazing new life
and career. What will it look like? Focus only on
the future and what you want to happen next.
5. See a career intuitive, coach
or counselor or take a career workshop to help you
manage this transition.
6. Surrender. A death is required
before every rebirth. Let go of what you think you
know. The new direction reveals itself only when
you’re open to it and have released your old
story.
Author and Career Intuitive Sue Frederick’s
work has been featured in The New York Times,
Yoga Journal, Natural Health, Fit Yoga,
and at venues like The Crossings Retreat Center
in Austin. She’s the author of Dancing
at Your Desk, I See Your Dream Job, and BrilliantDay.
For more info or to schedule a session, visit www.CareerIntuitive.org
or call 303-939-8574.
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